Thursday, March 26, 2009

College Sweethearts

Yesterday, while browsing through the net, I stumbled upon a blog that really inspired me. =) I'm not really sure whether it was the old 80's pictures, or because I could relate to the places in the University where they met,or maybe her reason for having a boyfriend, or just the way she told their story that really caught me and made me 'kilig' all over.

But by the end of the story, all I could say was 'Aaaawwwww'. Hehehe...

I think people who found 'the one' for them at an early stage are so lucky. Kasi sa panahon ngayon, for us to know na 'siya na' at our early 20's is so un realistic. There are so many trials and test na pag dadaanan na might make or break the relationship, kahit pa sabihin mong kayo na nga ang tinadhana.

Now a days, it's easy to find someone to be with kung gusto mo lang talaga na may 'makasama'. But then again those who can wait for the right one - the one who'll make things work out. Those who could make the magic last longer, for me, are the luckiest.

The little girl in me is really really really shouting at the top of her lungs. " Dao Ming Zhe, Where are you?" hehehehe.

I hope 'he' could hear me from here.

You can check out her story

Tuesday, March 24, 2009

That's the way I love you

He is sensible and so incredible
And all my single friends are jealous
He says everything I need to hear and it's like
I couldn't ask for anything better
He opens up my door and I get into his car
And he says you look beautiful tonight
And I feel perfectly fine

But I miss screaming and fighting and kissing in the rain
And it's 2am and I'm cursing your name
You're so in love that you act insane
And that's the way I loved you
Breakin' down and coming undone
It's a roller coaster kinda rush
And I never knew I could feel that much
And that's the way I loved you

He respects my space and never makes me wait
And he calls exactly when he says he will
He's close to my mother, talks business with my father
He's charming and endearing and I'm comfortable

He can't see the smile I'm faking
And my heart's not breaking
Cause I'm not feeling anything at all
And you were wild and crazy
Just so frustrating intoxicating complicated
Got away by some mistake and now

And that's the way I loved you oh, oh
Never knew I could feel that much
And that's the way I loved you

More often we wished that HE would be perfect. He'd do those gentleman stuff we'd only see in the movies. Those straight and right things. Those honorable things. Be the responsible and dependable trophy guy/gal.

But admit or not, too much of the good stuff can drive you nuts. Too much planning bores me. Can't you just not plan everything, and for once try have something spontanous. He could surprise you. Look at you with those beautiful eyes and smile slyly or wink at you if he catch you staring. Dance crazy and act like kids while playing card games or chess. If only someone would really ask you to just dance in the middle of a parking lot or for no special reason other than he wants to hold you close for 15 minutes.

We wonder if he could only think like us and feel like us, he'd know better and we'd be so happy.
Then again, how can he? If you yourself have no idea what mood you are.

I'm really talking nonsense. I just feel extremely happy and sad. Yep, no middle. Just both ends.
I'd rather feel this crazy than to don't have any feelings at all.

Monday, March 23, 2009

The Hardest Thing and The Right Thing Could be the Same

Sometimes you have to realize that what you think you want isn't really what you want. But what you have is exactly what you need. That where you think you want to be is not the right place and where you are, where you ended up, its all for a reason - and you're exactly where you're supposed to be... at least for now.

and if you managed to follow that thought all the way through - congratulations, because i think i lost even myself in the middle of that....

-- From L

I guess most of us are really stuck in crossroads. We keep on waiting for some sort of sign all of our life. We always wish that if and only we would know what would happen after the "Happily ever after", we'd be better. But then again, where's the rush. The thrill of not knowing what will happen.
Who wouldn't want a perfect life in a perfect world. Problem is, we, as humans are designed to lean towards uncertainy and thrive for challenge that we don't always want what is right in front of us.

Sunday, March 15, 2009

About Maturity

Maturity begins to grow when you can sense your concern for others outweighing your concern for yourself.
- John McNaughton

I do believe that when you start to stop nagging about why he's late, or having tantrums of why he can't call you every mintue, or if you stop pouting when he can't drive you all the way to your far far away home on weekends and when you rather he sleeps early than have a night out together. You stepped into that border line. Suddenly, your love has evolved in to a deeper and more mature level.

What Is Love?

"To love is to suffer. To avoid suffering one must not love. But then one suffers from not loving. Therefore to love is to suffer, not to love is to suffer. To suffer is to suffer. To be happy is to love. To be happy then is to suffer. But suffering makes one unhappy. Therefore, to be unhappy one must love, or love to suffer, or suffer from too much happiness. I hope you're getting this down."
~ Woody Allen

How To's

How To Move On (even if you don't want to)
Cry your heart out and then find yourself a world where you could forget. Alienate yourself to everyone who would make you remember until everyone in your life is a stranger. Don't stop until you have become stranger to yourself as well.

How To Survive (just because you have to)
Slowly reacquaint yourself to your old friends, your old life, your old self. In time, you will be back to normal, with one person short, but still, normal.

How To Be Happy (Luffy Style)
Make yourself strong enough so you don't have to lose your nakama (i.e.friends, loved ones, lovers).

reposted from anne's